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| Powerful bond: The staff at Anh Duong blind massage centre are a close-knit family. They eat, travel and joke with each other. They all have one thing in common: blindness. VNS Photo Nguyen Dat |
Viet Nam News
by Nguyen Toan
One day Nguyen Ngoc Hieu woke up to complete darkness. The many strange noises and the perpetual darkness would terrify him.
Years later, those days are a thing of the past. The 30-year-old is now the director of two massage parlours in HCM City, creating jobs for some 30 people who share his plight.
Hieu was among the many children born into a poor family in the southern province of Tien Giang. His father was a drunkard, while his mother had to work hard to make ends meet. Feeling pity for his mother, Hieu stopped studying at the age of 12 and made his way to HCM City, seeking a bright future.
“On selling my mother’s chicken, I earned VND70,000 (US$3) and caught a coach to the city. I asked for work everywhere but no one accepted me as I was too tiny,” he recalls.
“Fortunately, a plastic company on Lo Gom Street offered me a job on a daily salary of VND15,000 and one free meal. One day, the director asked me why I never went home. When I told him I had nowhere to go, he allowed me to stay in the warehouse,” he says.
Thanks to his diligence, Hieu earned the love and trust of the director’s family. They even encouraged him to attend a continuation class.
Hieu believed that only education could help change the future. He started faring well in his studies, and so started attending a regular training course. After graduating from the National College for Education, HCM City, he got a job as a physical education teacher in the Le Hong Phong Secondary School in Vung Tau City in the southern province of Ba Ria-Vung Tau.
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| Leading: Nguyen Ngoc Hieu (left) is now the manager of two blind massage centres in HCM CIty. VNS Photo Nguyen Dat |
Blind teacher selling fruits
He continued to work in the city for three years and was planning to get married. Sadly, fate had other plans. Hieu suddenly contracted a strange disease.
By the end of July 2007, he was down with high fever and was rushed to the hospital, but the disease could not be diagnosed.
He was then admitted to HCM City’s Hospital for Tropical Diseases as he had become very weak, being unable to eat or drink. Doctors had to use a feeding tube to feed him.
His fiance would work during the day and take care of him at night those days.
After three months of treatment, his health gradually improved, but his eyesight was lost forever.
The fear of living in darkness and being unable to do anything, compelled him to attempt suicide, but he was saved.
“After leaving the hospital, I quit my teaching job and started selling fruits on the pavement. Everyone living on Nguyen Dinh Chi Street of District 6 knew the blind physical education teacher selling fruits. I would quote the price to the buyers. They would weigh the fruits themselves and give me the money,” Hieu says.
Though his girlfriend kept visiting to take care of him, he asked her to leave him.
“I did not want her to suffer. I was blind and was staring at a gloomy future. If she had married me, she would have been miserable,” he adds.
Later, Hieu switched to selling lottery tickets on Le Trong Tan Street of Tan Binh District.
The job was tough. “You are lucky if you meet kind people but you are also vulnerable to criminals,” he says.
One day, a criminal gang snatched his lottery tickets and threw him into a canal. He was saved by the teacher of a school for the handicapped who later became his massage teacher.
Hieu learned to massage in the morning and sold lottery tickets in the afternoon. After learning the job, along with another friend, he opened a small massage parlour called Cho Ban Cho Toi (For Me For You).
Having been through difficult days of being tricked and bullied due to his disability, he understood well the obstacles faced by the sight-impaired people.
“Many sight-impaired people have high education, deep knowledge and high morals but do not have decent jobs due to their disability. Their life is unstable. The disabled also want to be like others. They want to do what they like and support themselves, which, however, is really difficult,” he says.
Knowing this, he has made great efforts to help as many vision impaired people as possible. With the business running smoothly, a few months later, he established another massage parlour, Anh Duong (Sunlight), offering stable jobs to another 30 blind members.
“Anh Duong is the light for the blind, the spiritual light to guide our way,” Hieu explains about the parlour’s name.
Conducting a business on a large scale is not a piece of cake, even for normal people. In addition to his friends and relatives’ support, he had to work hard from dawn to dusk to maintain his business.
Thirty-eight-year-old Phan Thi Phuong Dung who used to sell mufflers and cotton swab on the pavement to raise her two children is a member of Hieu’s parlour.
Her life has now been much better thanks to her stable job at Anh Duong.
“We do not expect mercy or support from society, but we aspire to live through our own efforts like normal people,” she says.
Dung and other former blind lottery tickets sellers or students who have been working for Hieu’s parlours are making great efforts to obtain recognition for their ability.
Hieu lost many things in life — aspirations, youth, future family — but now he is a content man.
The staff at the parlours are a close-knit family. They eat, travel and joke with each other. They all share a common thing: darkness.
“Losing light does not mean losing everything. We are losers only when we lose ourselves,” Hieu says. VNS
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